If you have other children, their reactions to their brother or sister’s death will be unique and is greatly influenced by their age. 

We also consider their developmental stage, personality and the family, cultural and religious influences in their lives. 

We understand you will have concerns and worries about how your other children will manage their grief.

It is worth remembering that a child’s grief can vary greatly from adults. Children who experience loss ask themselves:

• Did I cause the death? 
• Will I die? 
• Who will care for me?

Speaking in an open, honest and age appropriate way with children can help them cope better with their loss. 

Encouraging and supporting them in planning and attending memorial services can help them understand their grief and feelings.

Involvement from schools for on-going support is a positive step towards adjusting to their loss. it may  be worth considering professional bereavement support.

“ People who love each other are always connected by a very special String made of love. Even though you can’t see it with your eyes, you can feel it deep in your heart and know that you are always connected to the ones you love.” The Invisible String, Patrice Karst